The frequency of the other person returning home will most likely adjust to once every two weeks, rather than the once-a-week you hoped for. The hexagram reveals obvious signals of obstruction and delay in this matter, making it difficult to fulfill your wishes in the short term.

The Other Party is Currently Limited by Objective Conditions and Shows a Weak Willingness to Actively Change

Background Analysis

The positioning of your relationship in the hexagram is clear. The Self Line (representing you) holds Siblings Chou Earth and is a Changing Line, transforming into Chen Earth as a forward progression. This indicates that you are highly invested in this matter, possess a strong drive to push it forward, and may have even begun preparing for your meetings. However, the Other Line (representing the other person) holds Officer Yin Wood, which exactly meets Void (Yin and Mao are Void). Void implies a lack of substance or falling through, meaning that the other person currently lacks a concrete plan regarding the "frequency of returning home," or that their commitments cannot be honored for the time being. Furthermore, the Other Line holds the Black Tortoise. The Black Tortoise signifies vagueness and concealment, suggesting that the other person might be uncertain themselves, or that there are practical details they find inconvenient to disclose.

The Core Obstruction Lies in Academic or Institutional Constraints, Not Emotional Factors

Yong Shen (Focus) Analysis

When casting a hexagram on matters related to Love, a male asking about a female designates Wealth as the Yong Shen (Focus). In this hexagram, the Yong Shen (Focus), Wealth Zi Water, appears on the fifth line. Although it is restrained by the monthly command Wei Earth, the daily presiding Chen Earth acts as a Water reservoir, capable of gathering and storing Zi Water. Therefore, the Yong Shen (Focus) is not considered weak, indicating that your emotional foundation remains intact. However, the problem stems from the Changing Line. The Self Line, Siblings Chou Earth, activates and directly restrains the Yong Shen (Focus), Wealth Zi Water (Earth restrains Water). Siblings lines govern blockages, competition, and depletion. Your proactive push (the Self Line moving) may inadvertently cause pressure for the other person or trigger certain regulatory restrictions (such as school management policies), resulting in a decreased frequency of her returning home. The Resulting Hexagram is Hexagram 26 — Da Chu (Great Taming). The Da Chu hexagram inherently carries the meaning of "accumulation, waiting, and stagnation," directly pointing to a delay in the situation.

The Obstruction Stems from Documentation and Regulations; A Once-Every-Two-Weeks Frequency Aligns Better with Reality

Detail Deduction

The first line holds Parents Si Fire alongside the Azure Dragon. Parents lines represent documents, regulations, and schools. Si Fire generates the Self Line Chou Earth, indicating that the school's rules and regulations lean towards supporting "your side" (i.e., the local area and the family). However, this precisely implies that the school has unified management requirements for boarding students, such as granting leave only once every two weeks. The third line, Siblings Chou Earth, is a Changing Line that transforms into Chen Earth. Chen Earth forms a hidden combination with the Other Line Yin Wood. This suggests that the finalized arrangement (Chen Earth) will be tied to the other person's (Yin Wood's) actual situation. Yet, because Yin Wood is Void, its strength is halved, making it difficult to sustain high-frequency commutes. Taking everything into account, the Earth lines (Siblings) in the hexagram are overly prosperous, creating layers of obstruction. A rhythm of returning once every two weeks better aligns with the signals of "delay" and "taming" displayed in the hexagram.

The Situation Will Only Become Clear in the 7th or 9th Lunar Month

Timing Deduction

The Other Line, Officer Yin Wood, is Void, which is the direct cause of the current unresolved nature of the situation. The time when Yin Wood exits Void is when definitive news will arrive. For Yin Wood to exit Void, one must wait for a Yin day or a Shen day (to dynamically break the Void). However, it is more likely to occur in the upcoming 7th lunar month (Shen month) or 9th lunar month (Xu month). In the Shen month (around August in the Gregorian calendar), Yin Wood is dynamically filled, and the other party may provide a clear explanation; in the Xu month (around October in the Gregorian calendar), it clashes with the Chen Earth transformed by the Self Line's movement, signifying that a change will take place, and the final arrangement for returning home will only stabilize then. Prior to this, news is likely to fluctuate.

Action Advice

• There is no need to repeatedly press the other person for an answer for the time being. The Self Line moves to restrain the Yong Shen (Focus); your eagerness may backfire and add psychological pressure to her.
• You can patiently wait until the 7th lunar month (around August in the Gregorian calendar), when the other party might proactively inform you of the school's definitive arrangements.
• Mentally prepare yourself in advance to accept a rhythm of meeting once every two weeks. Focus your energy on enhancing the quality of each meeting, rather than fixating on the frequency.