The likelihood of him coming back is quite low, and the karmic connection between both parties is trending toward an end. The hexagram transitions from a Six-Harmony to a Six-Clash configuration (superficially scattering but internally clinging). Furthermore, the Yong Shen (Focus) Officer is restricted by the Day Governor and harmed by the Changing Line, indicating a clear lack of drive and sincerity on his part to actively initiate a reconciliation. There may be some brief entanglement initially, but it will be difficult to achieve a substantive and fulfilling outcome.

The Karmic Connection is Gradually Dissipating and His Drive for Reconciliation is Lacking

Background Analysis

When casting a divination for a Love reconciliation, the Self Line (representing the querent) is Siblings Hai Water, and the Other Line (representing the other party) is Siblings Zi Water. The Self Line is occupied by Teng She, indicating that the querent is currently feeling tangled internally, entangled in this relationship, and prone to recurring emotional drain. The Other Line is accompanied by the Azure Dragon, suggesting the other person may already be inclined to enjoy his current personal life or has adjusted his state to appear quite presentable. Looking at the overall hexagram structure, the Primary Hexagram is Hexagram 63 — Ji Ji (After Completion), which belongs to the Six-Harmony hexagrams. The Resulting Hexagram is Hexagram 39 — Jian (Obstruction), which transforms into a Six-Clash hexagram. The transition from Six-Harmony to Six-Clash (Harmony denotes gathering, Clash denotes scattering) is a classic sign of "entanglement followed by decisive rupture, drawing closer followed by distancing apart," predicting that the reconciliation ultimately will not last long and will likely end completely.

His Attitude is Cold and Lacks the Sincerity for Active Reconciliation

Yong Shen (Focus) Analysis

The Yong Shen (Focus) Officer is Restricted by the Day Governor and Harmed by the Changing Line

In a female's divination for Love, the Officer Line is taken as the Yong Shen (Focus). In the hexagram, the Officer Line appears twice (Fifth Line Xu Earth, Second Line Chou Earth). Following the principle of prioritizing Changing Lines, the Officer Chen Earth resulting from the Second Line is taken as the core Yong Shen (Focus), with the Fifth Line Xu Earth as a secondary reference. Currently, in the Wei month, Earth is prosperous, suggesting his current personal conditions or life state may appear stable. However, the crucial factor is that the casting day is a You day; You Metal severely drains Earth Qi (the Day Governor acts as the主宰 of the hexagram and has a highly weakening effect on the Yong Shen (Focus)). More detrimentally, the First Line Offspring Mao Wood is activated. Not only does it transform into Officer Chen Earth, but it also forms a "Mao and Chen Harm" (Harm indicates hidden resentment and mutual hurt) with the Resulting Line Chen Earth. The Offspring Line inherently represents the force that controls the Officer, indicating that the man harbors resistance to repeating past mistakes internally and lacks the positive energetic drive to actively repair the relationship.

The Hexagram Transforms into a Clash and the Self Line is Hidden, Lacking Intersection

The inner hexagram changes from Li (Fire) to Gen (Mountain). The Harm between Offspring and Officer in the First and Second Lines, combined with the entire hexagram ultimately resulting in a Six-Clash, indicates that even if the two parties briefly reconnect, they are highly likely to erupt into arguments and separate again due to practical obstacles (the Jian hexagram represents hardship and obstructed progress). Furthermore, hidden beneath the Self Line is Wealth Wu Fire (representing the woman's emotional investment or substantive efforts). This Hidden God is restricted by the Surface God (the apparent Self Line Hai Water), indicating that the querent's past efforts have been suppressed. At present, Water and Fire do not interact, meaning both parties lack genuine and effective emotional resonance.

Brief Probing May Occur from Mid-Wei Month to the You Month, but it Will Not Last

Timing Deduction

The Six-Harmony transforming into Six-Clash indicates that matters will manifest quickly and scatter rapidly; it will not drag on indefinitely. In the short term, because the First Line Offspring Mao Wood is activated, the dates corresponding to Mao Wood will often trigger initial movements in the situation. Combined with factors such as the Resulting Line Chen Earth exiting Xun Kong (Void), around mid-September 2026 in the Gregorian calendar (roughly corresponding to the days from Xin Mao day to Jia Chen day, which is the transition period from the Wei month to the Shen month and You month), he may initiate brief contact or experience emotional vacillation, giving the querent the illusion that "he is coming back." However, this contact lacks foundation. Once it enters October of the Gregorian calendar (the You month), the Yong Shen (Focus) Officer will be thoroughly restricted and drained, the relationship will rapidly cool down, and it will be definitively confirmed as irretrievable.

Action Advice

• Lower your psychological expectations and avoid over-investing unilaterally. To address the emotional drain brought by Teng She occupying the Self, it is advisable to stop repeatedly speculating about his words and actions, and forcibly shift your attention back to your personal, practical life or work.
• Maintain restraint and rationality in the face of his possible brief probing (such as social media interactions or casual chatting). Do not immediately respond with enthusiasm. Observe whether he possesses a substantive plan to resolve the past relationship obstacles; if it is merely polite pleasantries, there is no need to take it seriously.
• Follow the hexagram meaning of "Jian" (Obstruction) (the path ahead is difficult to traverse; it is advisable to wait quietly for the right timing). Since the configuration for reconciliation presents a "scattering image," the optimal strategy at present is to let go naturally, cut your losses in a timely manner, and refrain from forcing a broken mirror back together, so as to avoid secondary emotional hurt in the prolonged tug-of-war.