His feelings for you have faded, and he currently has little to no desire to get back together or move the relationship forward. The key basis for this is the Liu Chong (Six Clash) hexagram (representing scattering and rapid separation) coupled with clashing Self and Other Lines. Furthermore, the Other Line falls into a Void (indicating a lack of sincere intent and empty promises), signaling that the destiny between you both has reached its finale.

The Destiny of Your Love Shows a Complete Scattering Trend, and His Feelings Have Noticeably Faded

Background Analysis

The Primary Hexagram is the pure hexagram of the Zhen (Thunder) Palace, and the Liu Chong (Six Clash) hexagram sets the overall tone for this relationship. Six Clashes represent endings, volatility, and instability—good things scatter when clashing. Looking at the hexagram Palace's Wood configuration, both the Self and Other belong to Earth, indicating inherent friction between you two at a practical level or in your personalities. This overarching background means that no matter how deep your past connection was, your energies are currently pulling in opposite directions. This is not a cold war resulting from a brief argument, but a manifestation of your shared destiny substantially dissipating.

The Current State of Both Parties is Clashing and Void, Indicating a Substantial Severing of the Romantic Connection

Yong Shen (Focus) Analysis

When a woman divines about Love, the Officer Line (representing the man) is taken as the Yong Shen (Focus). In the hexagram, the Officer Shen Metal is prosperous in the Wei month (Earth produces Metal), indicating that his current personal state or Career is quite good. However, this energy is not directed toward you. The Self Line (Wea. Xu Earth), which represents you, and the Other Line (Wea. Chen Earth), which represents him, form a "Chen-Xu Clash," suggesting severe communication difficulties and mutual repulsion. More detrimentally, although the Chen Earth on the Other Line is strong in winter, an analysis of his intent across the overall hexagram shows that the Other Line is either Void or heavily suppressed by the day and month. This represents that his mind is no longer focused on you, and his inner attachment to you is extremely low (falling Void means having no heart for it).

The State of the Yong Shen (Focus) Shows He is Doing Well but Has No Intention of Returning

The Officer Shen Metal is prosperous and still (not moving), indicating that his life is currently stable. He is not deeply troubled by the end of this relationship, nor does he have the initiative to reach out or attempt to win you back (a Changing Line indicates action; remaining still means maintaining the status quo).

The Self-Other Clash and Black Tortoise Hidden Movement Suggest Blocked Communication and a Negative Mindset

The Other Line is accompanied by Black Tortoise (representing concealment and fading), while the Self Line is accompanied by Gou Chen (representing self-isolation and stagnation). Not only do you lack real-world interaction, but your psychological defenses are also incredibly heavy, and your mutual fixation is turning into exhaustion.

The Six Clashes Accelerate the Outcome, Making a Turnaround Unlikely in the Short Term

Timing Deduction

The characteristic of a Six Clash hexagram is that "matters are resolved swiftly." This means the outcome of the relationship heading toward an end will manifest quickly. Because the Officer Yong Shen (Focus) is still and prosperous, while the Other Line is Void and clashed, waiting for him to change his mind requires waiting for a node where the clashing Qi weakens or the Void is filled. Roughly around the Xu month (approximately October in the Gregorian calendar) or the Zi month (approximately November), as time progresses, you will completely confirm the finality of returning to your independent lives. His feelings will not undergo a substantial reversal.

Action Advice

• Abandon active probing and clinging. Under the Six Clash configuration, the more proactively you approach him, the more likely you are to trigger his psychological repulsion and defense mechanisms.
• Shift your focus from "what he is thinking" to rebuilding your own emotional well-being. Align with the Liu Chong hexagram's energy of "letting go" and cut your losses promptly.
• Accept the reality that this relationship has reached its period. Stop the internal friction, and invest your energy into a Career or lifestyle that can elevate your personal state.